I am struggling today to know when Lance is crying because his throat hurts and when he just wants attention.
Because he's been struggling to sleep the last few nights and naps, I have tried to make sure he knew I was here for him. So I've picked him up and cuddled him until he would fall back to sleep.
I have always been consistent in letting him fall asleep on his own in his bed, but obviously his throat has been disturbing him lately so I have made exceptions.
But I can now see that he's quickly picked up that mummy will come through if he moans. So tonight it's taken us over an hour to get him to sleep. I hate listening to him moaning and crying for attention. Some people describe it as their heart breaking but I can just describe it as a bubbling uneasy feeling that comes from the chest and it makes me want to get on my feet and go see him. It is so hard going against your instincts, but in this case I know it will be worth it in the long run.
So I just need to keep fighting the urge to get up and just keep an eye on him on the monitor instead. We can do this!
It's amazing how quickly he changed a behaviour and learned how to get what he wanted. He's like a sponge!
Stay strong and consistent!
Xx
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