We all need some time for ourselves once in a while to be able to recharge and relax. Since having Lance I have had to learn to prioritise these moments. Just as it's important for Lance to go to his classes so he can socialise, learn and have a change of scenery. It's just as important that I get a chance to be me for a couple of hours a week.
This used to make me feel selfish and guilty. How could I be happy to get away from my baby and husband. Surely that can't be normal?
But when I noticed the difference in myself after having a short break I knew it was a great thing for all of us. I can invest more energy into playing with Lance and have fun because I know I will get the chance to recharge.
I am a mummy 24/7. I am also trying to be a good wife whenever I can. But I also need to be good to myself and make sure I'm in a good place so I can be the best mummy and wife. Cause we all deserve that.
Finding a balance is tricky, but I never will unless I try! Practice some healthy selfishness and be kind to myself! So I can be the best version of ME!
Xx
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